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Tag: resilience

  • Compassion and The Compass

    Compassion and The Compass

    This episode walks straight into the messy, human middle ground between loving people and losing yourself in the process. Using the story of Paul and Eunice—a sober helper and a deeply traumatized veteran—we unpack what compassion really looks like when trauma, addiction, resentment, and financial collapse all live under the same roof.

    Guided by the compass of Freemasonry and the inner fortress of Stoic philosophy, we explore the idea of the cable tow as a moral boundary: the point beyond which “helping” turns into self-destruction. We connect that to how we run systems and services under stress—incidents, outages, RTOs, RPOs, blameless postmortems—and show that both people and platforms need the same thing: clear limits, honest observation, and recovery plans that actually work.

    This isn’t an abstract seminar. It’s trauma, rent, sobriety, hatred, love, and the quiet power of one small, consistent life lived decently in front of another broken person.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • How trauma reshapes a worldview—and why one honest counter-example can start to crack it

    • Why “compassion does not require self-immolation,” and what healthy boundaries really look like

    • How Marcus Aurelius would diagnose over-giving, resentment, and walking away “without hatred”

    • The parallels between personal recovery and organizational recovery: incidents, DR tests, and blameless postmortems

    • Practical steps for people who feel like Paul (the overwhelmed helper) or Eunice (the traumatized survivor) today

    This is an episode about keeping your heart open and your compass steady.

    Source #01: Paul and Eunice is a personal story from real people in my personal life. Names have been changed to protect the identities of the individuals.

  • The Architecture of Eternity

    The Architecture of Eternity

    Freemasonry’s Moral OS and the Birth of Human Reliability

    This episode of The Cab Call traces the long arc of Masonic history as if it were the version-history of humanity’s oldest moral operating system. Instead of treating the Craft as a museum of rituals, we explore it as a living reliability framework—prophecy, practice, and interpretation—evolving over thousands of years to keep human beings resilient in a world full of entropy.

    We move from the prophetic era, where symbols like the Cube and Square encoded universal laws of stability, through the great operative builders who carried those laws through collapsing empires and dark ages. The Comacine Masters, the Roman Collegia, the cathedral architects—all appear not as quaint historical footnotes but as early maintainers of an ethical architecture designed to produce both strong buildings and strong men.

    The episode follows the rise of Speculative Masonry, when the craft stopped building cathedrals and began building character instead, and culminates with the 1717 Grand Lodge—the moment Masonry became a universal, non-sectarian system for producing “Good men and True.” Across the entire journey, we frame the fraternity as a blueprint for human reliability engineering: an attempt to harmonize fallible people with immutable moral laws the same way an engineer harmonizes fallible systems with physical ones.

    It’s an episode about continuity across collapse, symbols that outlast empires, and why an ancient institution built for stoneworkers still feels modern in an era of distributed systems and digital drift.

    Source #1: The Builders. A Story and Study of Masonry by Joseph Fort Newton, Litt. D.